How to Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People): Spiritual Advice for Modern Relationships

How to Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People): Spiritual Advice for Modern Relationships

by Meggan Watterson (Author), Lodro Rinzler (Author)

Synopsis

Told from the alternating vantage points of authors Meggan Watterson and Lodro Rinzler, How to Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People) reminds us that love isn't something we have to earn. All of us are deeply and intrinsically worthy of love - not only love we hope to receive from others, but the love we give to ourselves - and this book offers the insight and practical tools we need to stay firmly grounded in self-love as we ride out the natural (and often stormy) cycles of relationships. Meggan and Lodro's Unique perspectives as teachers and scholars of Christian mysticism and Buddhism respectively make for a rich and lively dialogue that draws on wisdom sources like the Gospel of Mary Magdalene and the Four Noble Truths, along with funny, revealing stories from their own love lives and their deep friendship with each other. You'll find guidance for embracing single life, dating with an open heart, and thriving in lasting love; meditations and practices for calm abiding, 'disciplined hope,' and connecting to the source of love within you; and tips on everything from sex, self-worth, and nourishing friendships to navigating breakups and learning to truly love yourself. Ultimately, you'll be able to see your ideal partner in a new light - not as someone who 'completes' you, but as someone who mirrors back to you your own wholeness. 'Meggan and Lodro offer the most treasured gift-a pathway to learn to love yourself no matter what.' Gabrielle Bernstein, New York Times best-selling author of Miracles Now

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Format: Kindle Edition
Pages: 211
Publisher: Hay House
Published: 15 Sep 2015

ISBN 10: 1401946690
ISBN 13: 9781401946692

Media Reviews
How to Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People) is a modern-day guide to all things relationship-- starting with numero uno--yourself. I highly recommend this book to anyone who would like more love in their life. And last time I checked that was everyone on the planet.
-- Christiane Northrup, M.D., New York Times best-selling author of Goddesses Never Age

How to Love Yourself is one of the best books I've read on the topic of relationships. This book translates life-changing spiritual principles in a hip and relevant way. Meggan and Lodro offer the most treasured gift; a pathway to learn to love yourself no matter what. I recommend this book to anyone ready to give, receive, and embody love.
-- Gabrielle Bernstein, New York Times best-selling author of Miracles Now

? This is a new kind of self-help book. There is no perfection and pontificating here--just the beautiful, messy, and wonderful truth about love, shared with great generosity. While both authors are deeply steeped in their mutual wisdom traditions, their greatest teachings are in the personal stories they share. No matter what is (or isn't) happening in your life, Lodro and Meggan help you to see that your whole life is your love life.
-- Susan Piver, New York Times best-selling author of The Wisdom of a Broken Heart and Start Here Now

How to Love Yourself is an illuminating look at love--a quality hard to figure out even as we are taught that it makes the world go 'round. The book is wise, useful, and also great fun to read. Lodro, from his long-term Buddhist practice, and Meggan, with her Christian mystic background, offer different ways of viewing love as the force that frees us to truly be ourselves, and be happy.
-- Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness and Real Happiness

The great thing about Lodro and Meggan writing a book about love is that you get perspectives from both a down-to-earth Buddhist dude, and a hot female mystic--AND!--double the jokes and love stories. The result is a lot of truth and modern wisdom on how to expand your capacity to love--in suffering, in sex, in separation, in spirit, in your very real life that could always be filled with more love.
-- Danielle LaPorte, New York Times best-selling author of The Desire Map and The Fire Starter Sessions

I so wish I had read this book when I was 18 and just starting out in the dating world. It would have saved me a lot of trouble and a boatload of Kleenex. Meggan and Lodro are not only totally sane in their approach to relationships, they're also practical and hilarious. This page-turner will most assuredly crack you up, but more importantly, it will ease your path to finding the love of your life, whether that turns out to be someone else or the person staring back at you when you look in the mirror.
-- Kate Northrup, best-selling author of Money, A Love Story

I am so grateful the universe shifted and brought both Meggan and Lodro together to share this sacred work. Loving yourself is no easy task but it's the most rewarding lesson. How To Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People) is a manual that helps you dive deep into the cave of your own heart so you can become your own beloved. This step-by-step guide helps you crack open the most auspicious part of you so that you can walk safely in love. If you are ready to courageously leap out of fear and into unconditional love, this is the book for you.
-- Kyle Gray, best-selling author of Angel Prayers

? Meggan Watterson and Lodro Rinzler have written a modern-day spiritual 'he said, she said' as they guide us along the path to loving ourselves fiercely, ultimately giving way to loving others and being loved. Intimate, entertaining, provocative, and revealing, How To Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People) is for all seekers of self-love and self-acceptance. Give your heart a gift and immerse yourself in the wisdom and lessons this book has to offer--you just may find love where you least expect it.
-- Nancy Levin, best-selling author of Jump . . . And Your Life Will Appear

How To Love Yourself (And Sometimes Other People) has real modern gems in it, and the down-to-earth and complementary voices of its authors, Meggan and Lodro--both young experts in their own spiritual fields--leaves you feeling like they are totally present with you as you read these pages. What really helps us to navigate love is a good conversation with trusted friends, friends who don't judge us, friends who actually know what they are talking about. Meggan and Lodro both show their ability to be those friends, to themselves, to each other, and to us as we read along.
-- Ethan Nichtern, author of The Road Home

Looking for love? Well, stop. Seriously, the search is over. Meggan and Lodro remind us that love is right here, within. There's nowhere we need to go or some better version of ourself we need to become. How To Love Yourself is that slap to the forehead that we all can use. This beautiful gem reminds us that we are love and therefore we don't need to wait for a partner to find love. We can get that party started right now--and then a partner can swing in and join us on this wild adventure of loving ourselves. No stress. No expectations. Just love.
-- Kris Carr, New York Times best-selling author of Crazy Sexy Diet and Crazy Sexy Kitchen

Author Bio
Lodro Rinzler is a teacher in the Shambhala Buddhist lineage and the author of five books on meditation including the best-selling The Buddha Walks into a Bar... and the award-winning Walk Like a Buddha. Over the last 14 years he has taught numerous workshops at meditation centers, businesses, and college campuses throughout North America. Lodro's columns appear regularly on the Huffington Post, Marie Claire, and Elephant Journal and he has been featured on WNYC, WBUR, FOX, the CBC, Bloomberg Businessweek, and Fast Company. He is the founder of the Institute for Compassionate Leadership, an authentic leadership training organization, and lives in Brooklyn with his dog Tillie and his cat Justin Bieber. Website: www.lodrorinzler.comMeggan Watterson is an author, international speaker, and Harvard-trained scholar of the divine feminine who inspires seekers to live from the audacity and authenticity of the voice of their soul. Her first book with Hay House titled REVEAL: A Sacred Manual for Getting Spiritually Naked is described as ignited prayer by Eve Ensler, life-changing by Dr. Christiane Northup, and a blessing to the world, by Gabrielle Bernstein. She has a Masters of Theological Studies from Harvard Divinity School and a Masters of Divinity from Union Theological Seminary at Columbia University. Website: www.megganwatterson.com