Comes the Darkness, Comes the Light: Memoirs of a Former Cutter

Comes the Darkness, Comes the Light: Memoirs of a Former Cutter

by VanessaVega (Author)

Synopsis

When Vanessa Vega would feel the darkness begin to come over her, she would do anything, hoping to escape it. Take a hot bath. Read a book. Watch TV. Talk to a friend. But then, finally, unable to fight it any longer, she would give in, head into the bathroom...and cut. Comes the Darkness, Comes the Light is a disturbing yet ultimately redemptive and inspiring memoir of a young woman compelled to injure herself in an attempt to cope with her overwhelming feelings of anxiety in the only way she knew how. Though still unknown to many, this disorder affects an estimated one per cent of the population...and is on the rise, especially among teens. This affecting, heartwrenching book follows author Vanessa Vega's progress as she climbs her way back to emotional health and rebuilds her life. Readers will go inside the mind of a 'cutter', taking the journey with her as she struggles against her exhausting and shameful secret ritual.As Vega faces the anger and insecurity that lead to each encounter - while working with a therapist to understand the real motivating factors behind her behavior - Comes the Darkness, Comes the Light reveals what brings many to this disorder...and what can lead them out. With stunning insight, Vega has written a moving first-person account of self-injury, struggle, and redemption.

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Format: Hardcover
Pages: 240
Publisher: Amacom
Published: 01 May 2007

ISBN 10: 0814474233
ISBN 13: 9780814474235

Media Reviews
Her work is cleanly wrought and raw with emotion.

-Publisher's Weekly


Vega shows that it is possible to both overcome stigma and change misapprehensions.

-Treatment Online


More importantly, the book is a story of hope for others who grapple with the same disorders.

- Health News Digest


.,. more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion.

-About.com


The author's overarching tone throughout the two-hundred page work is a tone of sincerity and brutal honesty.

-Pegasus News


A well written book that provides an insight into the mind of someone battling an eating disorder and self-injury.

-Centre for Emotional Well-Being blog


Vanessa is clearly a talented writer, [...] I feel that this is a positive contribution to the existing self-injury literature.

-Lifesigns: Self-injury Guidance and Network Support


It is a tribute to Vanessa Vega that her account is infused with gentleness. Kindness toward herself was one of the hardest things for Vega to grasp in recovery. Asking that readers view her life with care is a mark of healing and hope. This is perhaps the book's most lasting gift, because it is more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion. Because Vega has learned more about compassion and forgiveness in her own life, the request she makes of readers feels honoring.

-About.com


... more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion.

-About.com


It is a tribute to Vanessa Vega that her account is infused with gentleness. Kindness toward herself was one of the hardest things for Vega to grasp in recovery. Asking that readers view her life with care is a mark of healing and hope. This is perhaps the book's most lasting gift, because it is more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion. Because Vega has learned more about compassion and forgiveness in her own life, the request she makes of readers feels honoring.

-About.com


A well written book that provides an insight into the mind of someone battling an eating disorder and self-injury.

-Centre for Emotional Well-Being blog


Her work is cleanly wrought and raw with emotion.

-Publisher's Weekly


Vanessa is clearly a talented writer, [...] I feel that this is a positive contribution to the existing self-injury literature.

-Lifesigns: Self-injury Guidance and Network Support


The author's overarching tone throughout the two-hundred page work is a tone of sincerity and brutal honesty.

-Pegasus News


Her work is cleanly wrought and raw with emotion.

-Publisher's Weekly


Vanessa is clearly a talented writer, [...] I feel that this is a positive contribution to the existing self-injury literature.

-Lifesigns: Self-injury Guidance and Network Support


. .. more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion.

-About.com


It is a tribute to Vanessa Vega that her account is infused with gentleness. Kindness toward herself was one of the hardest things for Vega to grasp in recovery. Asking that readers view her life with care is a mark of healing and hope. This is perhaps the book's most lasting gift, because it is more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion. Because Vega has learned more about compassion and forgiveness in her own life, the request she makes of readers feels honoring.

-About.com


The author's overarching tone throughout the two-hundred page work is a tone of sincerity and brutal honesty.

-Pegasus News


More importantly, the book is a story of hope for others who grapple with the same disorders.

- Health News Digest


Vega shows that it is possible to both overcome stigma and change misapprehensions.

-Treatment Online


.. . more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion.

-About.com


Vanessa is clearly a talented writer, [...] I feel that this is a positive contribution to the existing self-injury literature.

-Lifesigns: Self-injury Guidance and Network Support


A well written book that provides an insight into the mind of someone battling an eating disorder and self-injury.

-Centre for Emotional Well-Being blog


Her work is cleanly wrought and raw with emotion.

-Publisher's Weekly


It is a tribute to Vanessa Vega that her account is infused with gentleness. Kindness toward herself was one of the hardest things for Vega to grasp in recovery. Asking that readers view her life with care is a mark of healing and hope. This is perhaps the book's most lasting gift, because it is more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion. Because Vega has learned more about compassion and forgiveness in her own life, the request she makes of readers feels honoring.

-About.com


.. . more than an account of issues that can be horrifying. It's a call to a greater level of compassion.

-About.com


Vega shows that it is possible to both overcome stigma and change misapprehensions.

-Treatment Online


More importantly, the book is a story of hope for others who grapple with the same disorders.

-Health News Digest


The author's overarching tone throughout the two-hundred page work is a tone of sincerity and brutal honesty.

-Pegasus News


Silver Winner of the 2008 Nautilus Book Awards in the Memoir/Personal Growth category.
Author Bio
Vanessa Vega (Irving, TX) is an 11th grade English teacher, author, and professional model. She wrote about her experiences with anorexia as a contributing author to Taste Berries for Teens Volume IV. She has struggled with self injury for over 30 years.