You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation

by Deborah Tannen (Author), Tannen (Author), Deborah Tannen (Author)

• Used

  Paperback
  1991

  $3.44

• Used

  Hardcover
  1991

  $4.38

  Why is it that women and men seem to talk at cross purposes? Some have claimed that conversations are the forum of male power games, but the author suggests that jockeying for attention is not the whole story and that even when domination is the result, it is not always the intention. She shows how many frictions may arise because girls and boys grow up in essentially different cultures. Where women use language to seek confirmation, make connections and reinforce intimacies, men use it to protect their independence and negotiate status. The result is that conversation becomes a cross-cultural communication, fraught with genuine confusion. Using examples and anecdotes, this book offers an approach to banishing the misunderstandings that confuse our relationships.

• New

  Paperback
  2001

  $17.28